To kill pride and weaken your defensive posture when disagreeing or fighting with a loved one, get off the correction spiral. In other words, don't correct them right away. That often leads to them correcting you back right away. And you go back and forth spiraling upwards in heat with less and less light.
In Conflict? Get Off the Correction Spiral
In Conflict? Get Off the Correction Spiral
In Conflict? Get Off the Correction Spiral
To kill pride and weaken your defensive posture when disagreeing or fighting with a loved one, get off the correction spiral. In other words, don't correct them right away. That often leads to them correcting you back right away. And you go back and forth spiraling upwards in heat with less and less light.